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Love, friendship, family, financial stability, vacation, freedom—these are the beautiful things in life that we crave. We naturally tend towards an ideal state where we feel we would be free to be and do anything we want, in the interest of ourselves and those we love. This is the human dream: to be loved by someone we deem special, to have great friends who resonate with us at the core of our being, to have a cheerful family where love rules and mutual servitude is genuinely expressed, and to have financial freedom that allows for a comfortable and fulfilling life. Every human would love that, wouldn’t they? Every one of us is deeply enthused about “a synchronized life” where we feel in control and outcomes go in our favor.
Yeah, a synchronized life—wait! Hold on, I might just be the one who came up with that term, or maybe not. However it goes, I can only assure myself from within that I have not heard the term before, at least not conventionally. A synchronized life means that the core aspects of our being are in alignment with the flow of our well-being and will to exist. It’s a flow of life that balances our work, interactions, and engagements into an all-around blissful experience in which we participate. Whether or not I invented the term “a synchronized life,” it does make sense, and the underlying context and meaning here should prompt us to explore the subtleties that make this “coinage” a possibility. So, it’s not about who invented what; it’s about the excitement of understanding the context and how we can make it our own if we are fully satisfied with its offering. So, let’s delve in.
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Definition
Synchronization, though not directly synonymous, is closely related in context to the word “automation.” Synchronization is the seamless flow of diligent discipline in the individual metabolism of component processes or organisms that constitute the iteration of the “whole” of a singular object. Synchronization means that all singular processes are in timely alignment with the compartmental precision required for the execution of an objective. This can only be achieved through the diligent and timely execution within the sophistication of a unitary system—all things working together at the right time and with the required effort for the actualization of the singular, which entails the articulation of the constituent compartments.
So, with that definition, what would a synchronized life mean in comprehensive detail, and is it a possibility attainable by all humans? Hmm, this is where we incorporate premises of stoicism into our context; yes, we can’t escape it. The “synchronized life,” entailing all the trappings of a dreamy utopia, is actually very possible. Yes, we can have that dream job, great friends, a beautiful family, and the financial leverage to vacation twice a year with additional perks of tourism. It’s all possible—the infinite randomness of universal possibilities can allow for such occurrences. There is only one concern about this arrangement: the prioritization of synchronization from the observation of elements outside our consciousness and control. If a synchronized life is the result of conspiring elements outside the field of one’s consciousness, then what happens to that synchronization when one or more of these elements fail? Does that mean the synchronization cascades, and the individual can no longer enjoy it? Most likely yes, from a stoic perspective. “Forgive me,” but there won’t be an elucidation of the forthcoming context without some spiritual dichotomy.
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Now back to the individual: can we really call it a synchronization if the “synchronized life” the individual enjoyed before the event of a likely cascade was dependent on anticipated outcomes of external events such as child behavior, a spouse’s loyalty, or company obligations? These are antecedents subject to the vicissitudes of life and can happen either way as a result of unforeseen occurrences.
It is not pragmatic to say that an individual had “a synchronized life” if their synchronization was based on anticipated outcomes of events outside their control. This means that the synchronization the individual enjoyed, as highlighted in the beginning paragraph, was a contraption of coinciding probabilities that are just that—probabilities. A synchronized life does not hinge its metabolism on the outcome of external events or expectations. Even still, a synchronized life does not rely on a contrived pattern of events for a person’s life to be synchronized. A synchronized life, in its truest sense, establishes itself in the faculties of thought, psyche, and perception of the individual hosting the synchronization. This synchronization feeds on the integration, acceptance, and transmutation of the multiple possibilities for which a scenario can play out and consciously creates an outcome that aligns with the peace and stasis of the protagonist.
Clarity
A synchronized life is one of alignment with our self-expression, actions, engagements, and relationships with the core of our self-authenticity, peace, and bliss. This definition rests the power wholly on the individual as the alchemist, fusing together pleasant and unpleasant elements of their perceivable reality into productive outcomes that are in tandem with their authenticity, peace, and bliss. How are they able to do this? It’s obviously not a walk in the park, and here is where our context intersects with spiritual alchemy. No, we are not straying too far; we are only making occasional detours to absorb contextual essence to help further clarify the meaning.
An individual lives a synchronized life not by reveling in the joys and pleasures of comforts as described in the first paragraph and hoping everything remains as it is—very highly unlikely, as Murphy’s Law always suffices. Instead, an individual lives a synchronized life by intentionally integrating all aspects of their environment and its challenges, transmuting them into progressive outcomes that enable the continuity of their being. They do this by attaining a height of spiritual cultivation that gives them a degree of awareness and intentional-ity to make strict choices in thought, resolution, and behavioral conduct that align with the desired reality they want to create. We are soon to see how that works.
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Resolution
A truly synchronized life happens when the protagonist does not place a desired expectation on a dream job but understands the significance of their own power regarding their work life and strives to reinvent themselves into a highly productive value form that makes them sought after in the labor world, thus affording them many opportunities and options. This means that their synchronization is not lost when they lose their job; instead, they can explore the myriad of work opportunities available to them due to their possession of in-demand high-value skills or entrepreneurial ventures.
A truly synchronized life happens when one does not impose a standard on what their dream family should be but understands the immutability of life. This makes them accept their spouses and children as they are, with an understanding of acceptance and tolerance, so long as their personal essence does not suffer due to the interaction. They love their family not because their kids are intelligent or appear a certain way but because of the core essence of what a family is about: love, bonding, and nurture.
A truly synchronized life happens when one leverages the friendships they have, regardless of the station of people involved, so long as they mutually benefit from the necessary value that each provides in their current state of evolution. Synchronization does not come from having rich or popular friends but from a function of commensurate and integral value exchange that occurs regardless. The same applies to finances: one does not need to wait for that dream paycheck or savings before choosing to synchronize their life. An individual can synchronize their life regardless of their current financial state by adapting to the situation, mapping out a money plan suitable for their condition, and ensuring their expenditure follows an enterprising pattern that is meant to expand their financial buoyancy.
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